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Beware the thieves in the night

Tuesday, January 26th, 2010

or the light… it is sad we have to worry about such things but it seems the stolen phones and wallets seem to be skyrocketing lately.  I have had more and more people telling me stories about wallets and smart phones being stolen in the past few months.  It seems to be getting out of hand and the clubs may need to keep an extra eye out for some of the con men doing this.

Your out drinking and having a good time or trashed on who knows what and you are somewhere you feel that you can trust the environment around you because you felt safe there before.  You dance away the night then you look in your pocket to see what time it is from your iPhone and realize that it is missing from your pocket.  You then freak out wondering where you could have put it hoping it is at the bar or in the bars lost and found.

With no luck you have asked everyone where the phone could be and feel naked without that nice iPhone bulge in your pocket.  You have most likely been pick-pocketed from someone who goes out everynight or mostly on busy nights to get in your pants.  Get in your pants the way you did not intend.  The same happens with your wallet which may be what happens most often because most people leave the wallet in their back pocket.

I find myself on busy nights putting my wallet in my front pocket or splitting up my ID and one credit card in a front smaller pocket in case someone does steal it.  I find myself in the busiest of clubs such as this Prague club where I had my iPhone stolen.  That just ruined my trip to the Czech Republic and made me think they were all theives.  But then again I should have just left my cell phone at the hotel and had it locked up in the safe.  I mean if you can’t keep it in your front pocket with tight jeans on there where can you keep it?  maybe we need crotch pockets for this…

I learned to put a lock on my iPhone and bought insurance on it online.  AT&T does not offer any kind of loss insurance for its Apple based smart phone even though it will offer insurance on all of its other phones including Blackberry’s.

Just in the past month I have known 4 people personally that have had incidents where their wallet was grabbed from their back pocket in gay bars.  This is really surprising to me that it is getting so bad you have to be in defense mode all the time that something can be stolen like this.

I think that in some of the 18 and up clubs that they should have the monitors who watch for underage drinking also watch for these wallet and phone thieves.  Catch some of them in the act.  The bad thing is that most of these crimes do not get reported so we never hear about it unless someone tells us personally.  We know the clubs  do not even get it reported en0ugh so they may not know how bad the problem is… Losing your ID or passport is normally the worst thing that can happen because then you are really SOL.   I guess the best thing to do is to keep one sober eye open and one hand on your front pocket and one on your butt at all times lol.

The Year of Lady Gaga and Adam Lambert

Thursday, December 10th, 2009

Barbara Walters interviews both Lady Gaga and Adam Lambert as one of the 10 most fascinating people of the year. Lady Gaga outperformed everyone in 2009, even though she did not have the best “video” of all time according to MTV or Kayne West she was the hottest artist to pop music, dance music, and the gays… the people who really counted. We love Taylolr Swift and all but hey Gaga is so much more talented. Here is the interview with Lady Gaga and Barbara Walters. Miss Gaga even takes off her sunglasses for this interview with the legendary 20/20 anchor.

Boycott Jamacia, Myers Rum, and Red Stripe Beer

Wednesday, August 19th, 2009

Some of the gay bars and clubs in the UK seem to be serving up a drink that is toxic to the rights of gay culture.  Which is anything from the country of Jamaica.  We noticed the Red Stripe canned Lager was a popular beer in London at clubs such as Heaven nightclub a.k.a. G-A-Y club.

In order to stop giving money to all things Jamacia because by doing this we are supporting their stance on anti-homophobia.  The same goes for supporting Iran or Iraq with our wallets.  The hate for GLBT needs to be stopped and by not buying this brand of beer is a start.  It clearly says it is from Jamacia.  I could not drink this and feel good about the gays beaten, killed, and imprisoned in this fourth largest country in the Caribbean..

If two consenting men shag this can mean up to ten years in jail.  Jamaica is considered the worst place in the Americas for gay people.

Just like the HRC and other organizations ban certain products I think we should urge Heaven, G-A-Y, and other establishments to stop the sell of beverages that aid this type of discrimination that Jamaica clearly shows in their music and political actions.  Pick up a Tecate, Corona, or a Bud Light or even a Vodka Redbull but throw the Red Stipe down the filthy toilet.

We are also urging to boycott Jamacia for a beach vacation.  Going there would only support their intolerance and hate towards GLBT people.  Here is a site that explains more about alternative vacations you can take and still get a tan and be in a more tolerant, loving atmosphere.

To Red Stripe’s defense they have stopped sponsoring the music festivals with the violent music towards gays but they did not come out and say it specifically.

Brands to Boycott – Anything from Jamaica including Myers Rum, Red Stripe.

OldSchool Underground Dallas Club Scene Found Online

Thursday, July 16th, 2009

I knew there was a site or two that consisted of ihategirls.com and ilikeguys.com which used to have all the good info when it came to Dallas and the alternative club scene,  There would be columns that could benefit your health, your music purchases, and even your guide to tell you what is going on that weekend.  As I remember there were lots of pictures of the legendary days of the club that was open for more then a decade and some comments that were mostly out of control.   DJ Red Eye and DJ Ronnie Bruno both had top countdown lists of their music as noted here:

DJ BRUNO

1. Don’t Want Another Man Dynamix presents Tina Ann Star 69/Kult US
2 Your Child MARY J. BLIGE CD R (Junior’s Marathon)
3 Music Madonna Maverick US (Original mix)
4 I Try Macy Gray CD R (Junior’s Marathon)
5 Scream Shout The Committee Miami 2000 US (Original)
6 Am I Here Yet? Billie Myers Universal US (Junior’s Marathon)
7 Dive In The Pool Barry Harris feat Pepper Mashay Nervous US (Vocal)
8 Stronger Kristine W RCA-US (Junior’s Marathon)
9 Your Song EJ vs JV white label
10 Airwave Rank 1 Tommy Boy-US (Junior Vasquez)

DJ Red Eye
1. Audio Soul Project – Spirit Repair Ep
2. PQM- The Flying Song (Yoshitoshi Rec./u.s.)
3. 6400 Project – Method (Siesta Music/ U.S.)
4. Fiorello – Azzurro (Rise Rec.,uk/ promo)
5. Basement Jaxx – Camberwell EP
6. Josh Wink – How’s Your Evening So Far/ French Kiss
7. Armand Van Heldan- Egyptian Magician
8. Junior O. pres. Starchild – 2 Much Happened
9. Traffik – Never Get Lonely (Fat Mix)
10. Shaker – Sucka!

Here is a bit of old school talk from the site I thought was interesting.  This is on ilikeguys.com Betty Ford’s Lack of Sex and the City Column:

April 6 , 2001 (Friday) – I spent a good part of my day preparing for tonight’s adventures out to the Bronco Bowl. DJ extraordinaire PAUL OAKENFOLD was going to be spinning there live, along with a few other DJs (D:FUSE, Jeremy Dawson, DJ Merritt, & Kid Icarus). This was a show we didn’t want to miss because Paul Oakenfold is such a big DJ and he was in Dallas. From what I understood, this was going to be a major event for the party promoters at PROTOTYPE, who happen to be personal friends of ours. They were kind enough to offer Bryan and I each V.I.P. entry plus several guests. So, I pretty much contacted every close friend that I thought was worthy of coming along with us. As my shitty luck would have it, no one was able to go for one reason or another. So, it ended up being just Bryan and me. That was fine though because it was less drama to deal with and less people to keep track of.

Right as we pulled out of our apartment complex and started driving underneath the overpass, all of a sudden, Bryan and I see this wrecked car zig-zagging right towards us. I slammed on my breaks faster than and the car missed us by just inches, crashing into the underpass curbside. Whoa! Neither Bryan nor I actually saw the accident happen. But, we did stop and called 911 for the people. In the meantime, one of the guys from one of the cars came running up to us and asked us why that person in the distance was smashing liquor bottles. Ooops! Busted! The guy thought that we were involved in the accident and that the person destroying the evidence was with us. We quickly informed him that we were innocent bystanders offering a helping hand. But, let me just tell you that it was not a pretty accident. Through legal obligation, we gave each party our business card and pressed on to the Bronco Bowl to get our groove on.

Also on this site they had Scott Huffman break down the new music that was coming out-

DESTINY’S CHILD

“Independent Women Part 1”

Columbia

From the Charlie’s Angels soundtrack, Destiny’s Child delivers yet another dance floor hit with “Independent Women Part 1,” a song that is gracing radio airwaves around the country. And with singles like “Bills, Bills, Bills” and “Say My Name” under their belts, these women from Houston, Texas, are no strangers to the world of remixes. Side one of the 12-inch vinyl release, along with the Album Version (3:41) and Instrumental Version (3:41), includes Maurice’s Independent Man Remix (7:30). Maurice Joshua, who has remixed most, if not all, of Destiny’s Child’s singles, chooses to give the song an unmistakable Latin feel, complete with congas and trumpets. However, the Victor Calderone Club Mix (9:36), my pick, resides on the flip side. Calderone speeds up the vocals a bit to keep pace with one of his trademark drum and synth foundations and peppers the cut with vocal effects. Rounding out this release is the percussion-heavy Victor Calderone Drum Dub Mix (5:30). Give it a spin.

**** — Scott Huffman

RICKY MARTIN

“She Bangs”

Columbia

Ricky Martin, the crown prince of Columbia Records, has emerged with “She Bangs,” the first single from his sophomore album, Sound Loaded. While this cut does not rival the intensity of last year’s runaway single “Livin’ La Vida Loca,” it should be sufficient to satisfy Martin’s followers. The 12-inch promo for “She Bangs” offers four cuts and features the HQ2 12” Club Mix (9:02) crafted by Hex Hector and Mac Quayle. Spanish guitar strings highlight Martin’s vocal prowess in this mix that does not stray too far from the song’s album version. I like it. Next, the bass-filled Miami rhythm of the OBADAM Afro-Bang Mix (7:22) by Frank Lord and Albert Camara promises to heat any dance floor. On the record’s flip side are the HQ2 Instrumental (9:02) and the English Version (4:40). You’ll be hearing this one.

**** — Scott Huffman

MIKAILA

“So In Love With Two”

Island Records

Following the footsteps of Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera, Mikaila is the latest teenager to arrive on the pop scene. Hailing from Dallas, Texas, Mikaila is locally noted for her seemingly effortless delivery of the national anthem at Texas Rangers games. “So In Love With Two”, the first single from her debut album, is now commercially available. The CD single features both the Album Version (3:25) of the song (which has already received considerable airplay in Dallas) and a superb Hex Hector remix. The Hex Hector Club Mix (8:55), an intense and mesmerizing production, features tribal rhythms and seductive synths underneath Mikaila’s powerful vocals. Building and dropping at all the right times, this blazing remix promises to heat any midwinter dance floor. And, as a bonus track, the CD single also includes the Album Version (3:53) of “The Art Of Letting Go.” Don’t let this one slip by you.

***** — Scott Huffman

VERNESSA MITCHELL

“Issues” (Friburn & Urik Remixes)

G2

With crisp new remixes by the team of Friburn & Urik, Vernessa Mitchell will be once again be testifying in dance clubs across the country. Mitchell, in her solid and compelling style, delivers some gospel truth that will ignite both dance floors and souls. The A side’s Vocal Mix (11:31) is a percussive New York big room anthem that never loses momentum. In signature fashion, Friburn and Urik use simple tribal rhythms as the foundation for this progressive house record and increase its complexity and energy by adding layer after layer of percussion and vocal effects. The song climaxes with Vernessa’s raw vocal presentation, supported by dark synths and tribal rhythms. The track then comes full circle as simple drum rhythms close the track. A solid Dub Mix (9:49) dominates the record’s B side, but I prefer the Vocal Mix. In all, this is a powerful release that you won’t want to miss.

***** — Scott Huffman

TOP TEN PICKS FOR 2000

ARTIST TITLE MIX BEL
1 Madonna “Don’t Tell Me” Thunderpuss Club Mix Maverick
2 Whitney Houston and Deborah Cox “Same Script, Different Cast” Jonathan Peters Club Vocal Mix Arista
3 Shannon “Let The Music Play” Junior Vasquez Circuit Mix Contagious
4 Ultra Nate “Desire” Thunderpuss Club Anthem Strictly Rhythm
5 Abigail “If It Don’t Fit” Thunderpuss 2000 Club Mix Groovilicious
6 Olive “I’m Not In Love” DJ Skribble and Anthony Acid Trance Club Mix Maverick
7 Toni Braxton “He Wasn’t Man Enough For Me” Junior’s Marathon Mix La Face
8 Angel Clivilles “Show Me” Johnny Vicious Trance Mix Jellybean
9 Paula Cole Bank “I Believe In Love” Jonathan Peters Anthem Mix WEA
10 Mary Griffin “Perfect Moment” Johnny Vicious Extended Mix Curb Records

Neat stuff! I miss this site!!

Johnny Dangerous gets Dirty

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

johnny dangerous gay rapper If you do not know who Johnny Dangerous is then you do not watch the countdown on LOGO often. Johnny Dangerous is the gay rapper similar to the Gay Pimp Johnny McGovern. You will see him playing on LOGO’s The Click List for his Dirty is the New Black. I recently saw him on my visit to Chicago at a nightclub called Berlin. Johnny Dangerous rapped up his hit Dirty is the New Black, Take Your Man, and Curious. His music sounds a little like the Beatsie Boys but with some gay aimed lyrics.

I sort of like some of the nastiness in his lyrics. You do not get to hear such dirty in many songs like you do in his Take Your Man lyrics. Heres some pics from the album release show. You can check out his myspace at myspace.com/johnnydangerous.

The Low Down on Poppers

Tuesday, August 5th, 2008

You know… The stuff (one of the many) you saw Bryan doing on Queer as Folk in the clubs and in the baths.

What are poppers?
Poppers is actually the more common, street or slang name for various alkly nitrites; these are chemical compounds of structure R-ONO, for all you chemists out there, and the most popular forms for recreational use are amyl nitrate, butyl nitrate and isobutyl nitrate. (You can see why they’re simply called poppers!) You may be surprised to learn that these chemicals also appear in some over the counter air fresheners and video head cleaners; they were also used in the past, from 1875 and unsuccessfully, to treat angina and as an antidote to cyanide poisoning.

Why do people use them during sex?
Actually it’s not just during sex. They are popular on the dance floor too. People use them because you get an instant burst of dizzy energy for a short time. As Urban 75 says: “The rush kicks in immediately, and for a few moments you’ll feel like the bass drum has got inside your head, the lights have been turned up to a zillion watts and your heart is attempting a solo flight.” It’s a big, quick rush. Imagine an effect like that when your partner is going down on you or when you are taking his hard cock in your ass.

When did they come about?
For medicinal purposes they were first used in the late 19th century. As a recreational drug they first became popular around the early 1970’s, particularly among gay men. Since then their use has become widespread and they are freely available by mail order, in shops and at clubs. They tend to go by the name of ‘room odorizers’ so, if you see a row of small glass bottles in a sex shop calling themselves by this name you’ll know what they are.

Are poppers safe to use?
There are a few answers to this question and opinions vary. In the main they are not considered addictive though there have been stories of some guys not being able to have sex without them. Some people find them disorientating, they don’t like the smell and a regular side effect of sniffing them is a pounding headache immediately after and sometimes during the ‘rush’. As they open up blood vessels and increase heart rate they can be dangerous for anyone with a heart condition, high blood pressure, glaucoma and liver disease.

Therefore proceed with care and never take poppers if you’ve taken a Viagra (or similar).

It was thought, for a while, that poppers might be the cause of Kaposi’s sarcoma, or even AIDS itself, but that is now disproved. However, it does lower your inhibitions and therefore makes you more likely to think ‘what the hell’ and go for a sudden moment of madness, fucking before the condom is on. (It opens blood vessels remember, which will make your ass more susceptible to bleeding and infection.)

There is another danger too: Many years ago I was dancing in a club with a friend who, unbeknown to be, had dipped a cigarette in his bottle of poppers in order to inhale them through the filter. I just assumed he was looking for a light and lit his cigarette for him. Poppers are highly inflammable and the thing went up like a flamethrower. Luckily no one was hurt. But don’t smoke when using them, don’t drink them, don’t get them near your eyes and always put the lid on the bottle as soon as you have taken a sniff.

To answer the question: do poppers make sex better or are they to be avoided? They can make sex more intense, but only in short bursts of time. To use them or avoid them is a decision that only you can make.

I do have a funny story about a friend that had them in his car when he was in traveling. He got pulled over and the police were questioning him what they were. They found it strange he had this small odor-full bottle in his car. He for some reason told them too much information about how we use it for being able to "take it". I think the officers did not want to hear anymore after that or wished they would not have asked lol.

They are not illegal but it may be illegal to actually inhale them but you are free to purchase them of course under the name of video head cleaner or Room Odorisor. The more popular names of the products are The Dogs Bullocks, Liquid Gold, Bang Aroma, and Pure Gold. If you walk into a head shop to order do not say the word poppers but ask for Rush or Jungle Juice or Video Head Cleaner. Also, make sure if you do happen to sniff it by accident that you are aware you might have a headache from too much of it.

How to Make your Straight Bud Curious

Sunday, July 20th, 2008

There is this myth in the gay world that no man is truly straight. In some cultures (I’m thinking of Greek, Egyptian and other Arabic lands here and speaking from experience,) it’s quite acceptable to be bi-sexual. Sex with your mates, or an older guy, is for fun – girls are for marriage and having babies. But that’s really another story; the point is that some men are more up for it than others. After reading some ‘true life experiences’ on various gay story sites  gaystorycontent.com/club or manswords.com and many others, I put together a few ideas for getting your straight mate to ‘turn gay’.

Remember that he may not turn gay permanently. Many of the real instances that I’ve been told – where a straight dude lets another guy suck him off etc. – took place after a night of drinking. This is actually a good ploy: I’m not advocating getting drunk on a regular basis as that’s obviously bad for you, but it’s a good cop out for the straight dude to be able to say ‘I was drunk’ or ‘I don’t remember’ as if the thing never happened. Bless them, they feel so guilty when they’ve done something with a guy and enjoyed it.

So, you could engineer a situation where you and he are alone, having a few beers or whatever at home. You slip on a straight porn film (worth investing in at least one) to see his reaction. If he doesn’t know you’re gay you could ease in with ‘what part of this scene turns you on?’ he’ll say something like ‘the girl with the big tits’ in which case you have some work to do. But if he says ‘the blow job’ you can leap in with ‘I’ve always wanted to try that,’ or ‘I wonder what that feels like’ or dive straight in with ‘I can do that for you.’ ‘No way man,’ he will say to which you reply, ‘but we’re only having fun and anyway, we’re drunk so we won’t remember in the morning.’

If he’s really against the idea then don’t push it – things could turn nasty. But if there’s even the slightest moment of hesitation, if he has to think before saying ‘no’ then you’re probably on to a winner. Remember that he is going to be the shy and uncertain one so don’t rip your clothes off and present him with your hard cock. Start slow, seduce him, maybe simply touch his bare leg with yours, or let your arm ‘innocently’ drop next to his so you’ve made body contact. As the movie progresses you can start to pres harder and the moment he presses back you know he’s game.

That’s one scenario: the drunken one. I’ve heard of guys simply going up to their straight mate and kissing him when he’s a bit wasted, or even grabbing his cock. This way you either get a definite no by being pushed away or he is so stunned that he returns the grabbing.

Competition is good, sometimes. ‘Who’s got the biggest cock,’ is one to try. This can lead to both of you getting your dicks out and comparing sizes in a manly, macho way that both of you will love. ‘Ok, so who’s got the biggest when hard?’ is the natural second step. Watch him stroke his cock while you try not to shoot your load too early. ‘Who can come first,’ leads to a natural but quick end, ‘who can hold on the longest?’ is a good variation as is ‘who can shoot the furthest.’ But, as long as you’ve made him feel comfortable and un-pressured then he should respond to this ‘bit of fun’ by stroking his straight meat before your very eyes.

But if you want to see some real experts at it then you’ll need a little cash. Try this first time site to see how they do it and you could even copy their techniques – if you have enough cash and a camera. Here the straight boys (and they really are) are simply offered money to strip and jerk, touch each other and occasionally go the whole way. So if you can’t actually get your own straight mate to do it, click over there and watch someone else’s fantasies come true.

Read about how to throw a wild college party where you can make many str8, bi, and gay fantasies come true .

How to Not Use A Fake ID

Wednesday, July 16th, 2008

Ok, so we have all probably tried to get into a club using a fake ID or you know the drivers license borrowed from a friend that says you’re 21.  The problem is that there are so many worries you have to consider than just being turned down from the club once the door person figures out your ID is a fake.  If the ID is borrowed from a “look-a-like” real person they may not want their ID gallivanting around due to identity theft reasons in case the person looses it or it ends up in the hands of a club bouncer that is shady.  I have personally seen people at parties pass around ID’s that were taken at the door and no telling what happened with those.

I think the US liquor laws should be 18 and that clubs should not be as strict but I also wished the world was perfect and its not.  The clubs and bars are not being dick heads they just have no choice and live or die sometimes just on this one issue.  The majority of clubs get shut down just for letting minors drink or turning their heads to it and being caught by aggressive organizations such as the TABC in Texas or the highly aggressive ABC in NY .  If you work at a club you probably find it a personal assault that someone drinks inside it under 21 because it really does risk the club being shut down forever without a license to serve.  Several repeated underage drinking violations and the club is gone.

But what about the stupid things people have tried with ID’s that got them busted.  Here are some I have heard about or seen…

  1. Walking in Drunk into a club when you look 16 and using an id that says you are 23.  Ok this is really stupid.  For one do not walk into a club drunk no matter what age you are.  Even if you are 21 the club can kick you out or you can be arrested for public drunk when the police come do a walk-through inside the club.  I have seen people stand in line to get in a club before and not be let in because they are too drunk and a smart bartender would not serve them anyway for their own liability.
  2. Using an ID that you cannot sign the name.  If you do not have the address, birthdate, and cannot sign the name exactly as it is on the card then don’t risk using it.
  3. Using an ID that rips in half.  Um yeah if you are going to use a fake license then at least make sure the damn thing doesn’t rip apart and that its quality is good enough.  You know… as good as a REAL license.  These bouncers probably bust several people every big club night using identification that is not their own so I would test it out first.
  4. Not knowing anything about your state that license is printed.  Say you get a license from a state such as Ohio and someone asks you about how the Buckeye’s are doing this year and you say um “the who”… You could be in Vegas trying to use the ID but not even think they would know anything about Ohio.  Well most people who are checking identification have been around and they have moved around and know other cities.  Expect them to ask questions discretely just to see if you know anything about it.
  5. Actions speak louder than words.  Know that when you walk in hesitantly into a club and look around like a bozo that they will spot you out and be suspicious.  You will stick out like Marilyn Manson walking into Midnight Mass.
  6. Going up to the bar buying other underage drinkers drinks.  Not only will you get kicked out normally until you are 21 but your buddies will too.

Ok, so I made this list to be funny because I know how it is to not be able to get into a freakin club but you can read this blog and find out most of the under 21 nights in the cities we know about.  You might even be able to make deals with your local club about going in on 21 nights if you prove to them that you will not drink.  That is one hell of a VIP with lots of temptation.

Males get discriminated against more than anyone when it comes to getting into a club.  Most straight clubs make the guys enter at age 25, while girls can get in at 18.  This to me is discrimination and should not be allowed but the courts seem to allow it in most states.

Take Action

With the bad economy I think that governments might finally get desperate to lower drinking ages or loose that money in tourism to Mexico and Canada.  Write your local representatives and vote when elections come around.  Tell them it makes no sense to fight and die for a country but cannot enjoy an alcoholic beverage.

Finding a Fake ID

I wouldn’t risk it.  You might see a craigslist.org ad or someone offer you an ID but beware its almost impossible to make an ID since 9/11 and being busted for having one by the police might really land you in trouble.  If you have an older brother that looks like you then you’re a damn lucky person there might be some kind of music to be made out of that.  The government is cracking down on immigration, identity theft , and terrorism so you can only imagine the penalties for carrying around an ID that is not you.  A sibling I doubt would be much of a case for them (if you had their permission of course).

Fight for your rights biotches! But don’t get your hangout in trouble doing so…