Gay Clubs, Pride, Dance Festivals Being Targeted by Terrorists?

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This Post was written before the Pulse Nightclub shooting but it was a warning that we need stronger security at gay clubs at big events checking for guns and knives. There has also been attacks at gay bars in Mexico, a fire set to a gay bathhouse in Ybor Tampa, and club formerly known as a gay club in Cincinnati (Adonis) had a shooting where one died and 15 were injured. There have also been many threats received by homophobic groups around the world but security is still not doing their job and wanding people at the front door for guns.

The attacks in Paris, France sent the message loud and clear they are targeting happiness and fun. ISIS and radical islamists do not want anyone having any fun. They want us all to fear them which is why they they go to extremes to behead people and throw gays off buildings then stone them when they do not die from the fall. Now that they are going after concert halls and sporting events the club scene could be next. Continue reading Gay Clubs, Pride, Dance Festivals Being Targeted by Terrorists?

NYC’s Black Party Moves from Brooklyn to Manhattan

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The Black Party in NYC is one of the wildest and kinkiest things to do in spring with over 5,000 of the city’s most daring men. The all-night and day party is a fetish fest that promises high-flying aerial sex stunts and performances with an endless supply of leather. You are probably guaranteed to smell lots of poppers in the air. The party was held in Brooklyn but now it has moved to Manhattan to Space Ibiza on West 50th. According to the Saint At Large Facebook page a huge warehouse party was shut down just this past weekend in Sunset Park so they had to make certain that all the permitting is secured which led to a wait in the official location announcement.

The tickets are over $100 for the event but you can go cheaper if you wish to go in the wee hours of the morning. Saint At Large Tickets are $50 after 9am and the closing time is now 6pm Sunday evening. There are some complaining about the new Space venue saying it will be smaller than the one in Brooklyn so it may be best to go early in the morning and pay less. People are also saying they are relieved they do not have to go over to a sketchy neighborhood in Brooklyn to attend this party but getting a room in Manhattan can be an accomplishment in itself. You can check out hotel recommendations below.
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Planning Ahead for Big Parties I Missed Last Year!

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You really have to plan ahead to get the best deals sometimes at least that’s how it used to be.  Maybe not so much anymore if you don’t mind flying coach you can get deals last minute for cheap.  Booking hotels is the biggest obstacle so you have to know months in advance if you want to book a party at say the White Party in Palm Springs or the Gay Ski Weeks.  Sometimes people do not understand you have to plan ahead for things and you can’t sit around until the last minute to go which is why we miss out on so many parties.  Of course not this far ahead but at least a month or so ahead. ..

I am always up for trying out new events and love to meet new people and see new and exciting things.  Some of the events are hard to make because they fall on a big weekend with tons of other things going on that are more close to home or just more convenient.  The hardest events to make are always the gay ski weeks and January and February events.  Why are these so hard to make?  There is so much going on during Spring Break and the week’s right before that.
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Grindr’s New Emojis are Scandalous #sexmojis

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Grindr’s has released their brand-new custom emojis and they are a bit shocking at first. We are not sure if these will turn into more of an aggravation with the app or make it more playful and scandalous. Some are into Grindr’s new set of custom emojis but it is getting mixed reviews and some are deleting the app and seeking other apps such as Hornet. Continue reading Grindr’s New Emojis are Scandalous #sexmojis

One Magical Weekend is Back for Gay Days Orlando!

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We post each year about one of our favorite events held the first week of June called One Magical Weekend during Gay Days Orlando. One Magical Weekend at Walt Disney World includes three magical days at Disney plus great events such as daytime pool parties. Here you will see some of the hottest and funnest gays from around the world landing on the happiest place on earth. There are several parties and events that take place in the afternoons and evenings at the host hotel properties and other amazing venues at night and afterhours.

From June 3rd – 6th, 2016 over 6,000 gays will attend from across the US and the world. The event is being held on the Disney World Resorts property located at the B Resort & Spa. The B Resort will be the host hotel for One Mighty Weekend. You can reserve rooms here and they are SELLING OUT FAST.

It all begins on Friday, with the first “Therapy Pool Party,” when hundreds of men converge on the pool at the Official Host Hotel, the B Resort & Spa where international DJs will spin the pool deck on into the evening.

The weekend’s signature event will be Disney’s entire 52-acre fantasy water park, where 6,000 party boys clad in little more than a bathing suit to dance, enjoy the amazing water rides or chill out inside this sprawling theme park. It’s no wonder Disney’s Typhoon Lagoon Water Park is known around the world.

One Mighty Weekend’s Line Up of Events in Orlando:

Friday, June 3rd

11 AM – 6 PM: Therapy Session #1 @ B Resort & Spa with DJ’s JB Burgos & Tony Ruggiero [Tickets]
7 PM – 2 AM: Riptide @ Disney’s Typhoon Lagoon Waterpark with DJ Alexander & Eddie Martinez [Tickets]
2 AM – 8 AM: Cadabra After Hours @ Mango’s Orlando with DJ’s Ivan Gomez & Issac Escalante [Tickets] Continue reading One Magical Weekend is Back for Gay Days Orlando!

Gay New Year’s Eve Parties Worldwide 2017

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12400808_1931489727076739_6743187137028397135_nWe have tried to put together one of the best lists for an epic New Year’s Eve 2017. If you are Canadian, Australian, European, or from the United States of New Trumpland we found some of the hottest parties in the world you may not want to miss. The only problem is that we want to be at all of these parties and cannot decide so maybe this list will help us.

Belgium. H.I.M New Year’s Eve
According to this promoter they are selling more and more tickets in Canada and Australia. They are “Very honored to welcome people from the other side of the world on New Year’s Eve…”
Saturday 31st December 2016. H.I.M would like to welcome you to its very first edition of H.I.M NYE with
This night will be hosted by our first lady ALEX MERCURIO.
“Spain’s hottest party”
TAITO TIKARO (Matinee All Star – Circuit Waterpark 2015)
International Circuit Gogo’s & Entertainment
A brand new night out for him, her and everyone in between. A night filled with POPular pleasure and URBAN desire.
STEWIE LAHYE (Flash/Le You Resident)
JOEY (Random – Hessenhuis)
Hosted by Beauty QueeRs, Dazzling Diva’s and YOURSELF.
Dress up cauz Anna’s watching!
This event will take place at AEC Building (better known as Industria or Mansion), a mesmerizing industrial club with several floors and rooms, located in the Antwerp port (400m from IKON).
Indiëstraat 9, Antwerpen
Our Take: Sounds like they have their shit together and are throwing an epic party in Belgium. Our thirst is real for this party!
Go here for Antwerpen gay stay .

WE PARTY celebrates its 6th WE NYF anniversary, between the dates of December 27th to January 1st. Another edition, welcoming the New Year of 2017 in the city of Madrid, in Europe’s biggest gay Winter festival. A celebration that attracts more than 20,000 men from all corners of the planet.A different winter holiday, where you can enjoy 6 nights and 6 parties, celebrating together with the team of WE PARTY the New Year’s Eve and New Year’s Day. With a line-up of the best DJs in the world, the best opening shows, stagings and over 20 gogos.

Every year Puerto Vallarta has something for you on New Year’s Eve. This year, with DJ Dawna Montell and tropical events with an amazing fireworks show. Hopefully Trump’s wall doesn’t go up before the big weekend is over then again why not just stay in beautiful PVR until Trump is dumped out of office.

14641930_1092065167537568_7189615154572777683_nVIENNA – LOVEBALL – CLEOPATRA & HER LOVERS
Ok, looking through all of the worldwide events this one takes home the prize. In the history of the ancient world there is one woman who eclipses all others. Her name has become a byword for beauty, luxury and excess. Her story is entwined with some of the most powerful men in history. She is the last pharaoh of Egypt – CLEOPATRA. She has been portrayed as everything from romantic to a powerful sexual predator. The secrets of her concealed passionate relationships to her ardent lovers will be disclosed by LOVEBALL.
3 INTERNATIONAL SUPER STAR DJ’S, Cleopatra & her lovers, Live Performances, Huge Led Screens, Mugshot Photowall, 3 Floors, International Gogos, Loveball opening performance, and Ancient egyptian decorations.
DJ ASAF DOLEV (Tel Aviv – FFF, Beef, Revolver Berlin)
DJ Herb (Matine Las Vegas, Rosenball, Male Cologne)
DJ Andi Mik (Cricus, Loveball, GM1)
Mart.I (Ken, Fresh!, Connection Berlin)
WUK – Währinger Straße 59, 1090 Wien
U6, 40, 41, 42, 40A – Station Währinger Straße/Volksoper
5, 33 – Station Spitalgasse)
…is like every year, the motto of Loveball. Take Cleopatra’s and her lovers’ example and be open minded in love with respect and tolerance towards everyone. Don’t worry about conventions and rules, live your life how you like it, at least for this special night.
So far we see over 500 people interested in their Facebook event which is higher thus far than the other events. for more information and $25 off a place to stay here.

Saturday, December 31 9 pm – 4 am
The Belasco
Masterbeat is excited to present one of our biggest New Year’s Eve productions ever as we take over the entire Belasco Theater for One Love. Experience all 3 rooms of this incredible venue, all completely transformed by Masterbeat for this exclusive event, as we bring in an all new 8 point thundering line array sound system, full color lasers, high resolution 3D video walls with special effects and performances in every room along with Masterbeat’s legendary countdown to midnight. DJ’s Grind and Micky Friedmann will take you into the new year in the main theater, with Alex Acosta spinning all night in the upstairs ballroom and Tristan Jaxx taking over the underground vault. Love makes our world go around, come and ring in 2017 with love and thousands of the hottest men from around the world.
Go here for a $25 Misterbnb credit on your first stay in Downtown or Weho.

gay-london-new-years-eveLONDON – Heaven G-A-Y
I have seen rumours that it could be STEPS performing. If you have not heard of this group then Google search them. It will be quite a camp fan girl party we would all die for on any weekend. Steps is Reuniting For 2017
at the G-A-Y New Years Eve Party from 9pm – 5am.
“Brit Award Winning
20 Million Records Sold
The group with over Ten Top 5 singles and #1’s will be performing Midnight At G-A-Y. This is a mega-club and what we consider to be one of the best spots to be for the best club night of the year.
Go here for a $25 Misterbnb credit on your first stay.

There are also great parties in NYC and every major city. Check out these parties from last year and our advice on what to do when you go out clubbing for NYE.

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Party promoter? Add your event in the comments!

How to Get Your Butt Clean and Ready to Bottom Like A Pornstar

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What if a guy that you really like has you on a date and pulls you over and wants to fuck the shit out of you. But literally he would be fucking shit out of you because you are not prepared. It’s not that you are not clean but you have not eaten right and do not feel confident you are ready. It could be stomach problems or diarrhea from taking too many aspirin the day before from a hangover.

Having sex on the fly is the best. Most people do not have planned out sex such as porn stars so in reality they are more prepared because they douche. The thing is to reduce prep time to be more comfortable and confident.bottom-supplement

Understanding how your body works will reassure you and make you feel more confident in bed. Sex is much better when you can both relax and have fun.  Read more Below:



The most important thing to know is that the rectum (where his penis goes) does not store feces. The feces are stored in the sigmoid colon until you are ready to go. So you aren’t going to shit on him during sex for the most part.

If your rectum is not clean and the condom or his cock gets dirty when having sex then you have to improve your diet.cuteyincks


You need more fiber in your diet. Fiber acts like a sponge that cleans your rectum. And if it’s clean you can catch a dick whenever you want. 

According to the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics, men are not getting enough fiber. The suggested intake is 38g per day. 

You are probably at around 16g of Fiber a day.

Do you WIPE more than 3x a day? Then you should increase your fiber intake.

To fix this you must increase two things at the same time: soluble fiber and insoluble fiber. Most fiber pills do not address this problem.

Soluble fiber: oatmeal, nuts, beans, apples, and blueberries

Insoluble fiber: all-bran (like Kellog’s), dates, granola, dried figs, lentils

So just remember to eat at least 38g per day so you’ll be ready when he puts you on your back.


It’s hard to believe but there is something you can buy that actually works even for those that have diarrhea problems from meds and drinking too much. We all need fiber and our bodies are simply not getting enough. Basically a bunch of bottoms got tired of shitting on their tops and got together and created fiber pills you can take so you can bottom whenever you want. And it’s got hundreds of 5 star reviews on Amazon.

It’s called Pure for Men – a proprietary fiber supplement that you take once or twice per day.

It comes in pill form so and you only have to “swallow” 2 a day for most.  The pills are 100% vegan blend of psyllium husk, chia and flaxseed.

They say it’s not glorified Metamucil because Metamucil only contains psyllium husk and doesn’t have the same amount of fiber per serving. Not the same thing.


Pure for Men works like a sponge going through your body so that when you go.. YOU GO. This of course reduces prep time and makes you more comfortable and confident.

And confidence is sexy.

And since most of us don’t get enough fiber in our diets this can make a difference in your overall health too.


Start with one pill per day and work yourself up. S-L-O-W-L-Y. Too much fiber at one time can make you bloat, pass gas and create unenviable digestive issues.  So if you are planning on trying Pure for Men, here are a few things you should know about taking fiber supplements.

Spread it out.

Not your legs. Your fiber intake. Spread it out throughout the day and don’t take the full dose only at night. Spread it evenly throughout the morning, afternoon and bedtime.

Take any meds at least one hour before fiber supplements or two hours after. Fiber is known to absorb certain medicines, diverting them from your body.

Lastly, drink lots of water. Taking fiber without water is like bottoming without lube. Drink at least 8 ounces of water with every dosage.


Medical experts agree: Enemas and douches are harmful. Pushing water or a mixture of water and chemicals up your butt creates a powerful reaction (accompanied by bloating and cramping) that “evacuates” everything in your lower intestinal tract.

Do enemas work? Yes, you’ll never be cleaner in there (or up there, as the case may be).

Should you do it? Never, ever put chemicals up your pipes without medical supervision. Do porn stars do it? Of course they do. And it’s not a good idea. I can recommend something even better than you’ve probably never heard of. If your rectum is so dirty that you have to hose it out, the answer isn’t a fire hydrant connection; it’s a better diet.

But how can I clean out down there?


If enemas and douches pose too great a risk (and embarrassment) for frequent use…

There is a device that will flush out fecal residue without the dangers of an enema or a douche:
The ear syringe.

Ear syringes hold about one ounce of water—enough to get the job done but far too little to remove rectal mucus or cause peristalsis and its consequent “douche dependency.” To find out more about the ear syringe, including how to use it, check out the book where this information came from, How to Bottom Like a Pornstar.

Tips on Eating: Porn star bottoms say that what they eat affects everything.  Porn stars tend to be like most guys who you see at the gym who eat lean meats and fibers and no carbs. They drink water and teas, and stay away from carbonated sodas because the last thing they want to do before a scene is eat or drink anything that would make them gassy. Besides the obvious like staying away from sodas and chalupas, nothing affects your ability to bottom on-the-go than fiber intake.

Orlando Pride has been Postponed

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pulsepridepartyOrlando has had some of the worst luck and tragedy this year and it is more than raining on their parade this year it’s being postponed. The gay pride celebration in Orlando that was supposed to remember those who passed from the nightclub tragedy in June will now be held in November. This is because Orlando is under severe weather threat right now with high hurricane winds and possible flooding. You can barely buy bread or groceries or even gas to get around town much less try to make it to a pride parade.
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