Berlin is absolutely the hot gay destination

I don’t want to go into a history lesson here so I’ll just say that, since the wall came down in 1990, when we talk about Berlin now we talk about both East and West Berlin combined. However the city still has various ‘districts’ and they are each as diverse as each other, but the news is that gay people are generally accepted in most of them and you can often see gay couples walking hand in hand and enjoying a relatively accepting society. This is particularly true in districts such as Kreuzberg, Schoneberg, Mitte and Friedrichshain. However if you travel to the eastern districts of the city there is a certain right wing element there which means you have to be more cautions and probably less public in your affections.

If you are visiting Berlin and are a bit of a culture vulture then you’ll be pleased to know there are many museums and galleries, plus the cathedrals and other architectural sites to visit. Including the Gay Museum which also has an archive of mainly English language and gay related books that you can browse, on site. schwulesmuseum.de is their website is you want to take a look.

But that might be jumping straight in; first you’ll need somewhere to base yourself for your visit. out-in-berlin.com/hotels.shtml has a comprehensive list of places to stay. This site is in German and English and you can easily follow the links to the individual hotels where you will find locations and prices to suit you. Staying with that site you’ll see lots of information about things to do after dark. There are many gay cafes, restaurants, bars and clubs in Berlin though no one area where you find them all together – as you might in say Soho, London or Canal Street Manchester, UK. That means there is no gay ‘ghetto’ and, some people think, this adds to the individuality of the city as each business does its own thing and each district has its own vibe.

Check out the Mitte (central) area of e city as this is where the trendy and the young hang out at the new and sleek Sony centre – free wi-fi, open air and crowded with hip tourists. The Maritim ProArte is a recommended hotel in this district, it features original artwork on each of its 11 floors and the nightlife of Schoneberg and Kreuzberg is only five minutes away by cab. In these areas you will find some of the oldest and most notorious of Berlin’s clubs, such as SO36 and Eldorado. There’s a saying that cameras are not allowed in many of Berlin’s clubs for a reason and you can probably guess what that reason is!

But it’s not all sex clubs in Berlin, there are other, dance and chill out places too. It’s just that you might have to go searching for them. One of the biggest party nights in the city can be found at Club Weekend (week-end-berlin.de for up to date opening times) but it takes place in what looks like an office building. As gaytravelnews.com says, these wild clubs are ‘often hidden in plain sight.’

And staying with that site there’s some very handy tips on having a good time listed there. Such as: The various nights and dates of certain events can change and you need to be ‘in’ to know where and when the party will be. Remember out-in-berlin.com which will have the details on the nightlife or nachtleben as the Germans call it. Also don’t forget the gay museum schwulesmuseum.de and the various cultural events that the city hosts including the Love Parade, a giant street party – see loveparade.net. And as for getting there LTU offers non-stop flights from NY, LA and Las Vegas, see www.ltu.com/world.

As usual that’s only a quick dip into a huge city that is teaming with varied night (and day) life and loads of gay things to do and see. Check those websites, there are many more too if you use your search engine and keyword ‘gay Berlin’ for example. But one thing is for sure: if you are planning a European vacation then Berlin needs to be on your itinerary.

Upcoming circuit events in Berlin include the Hustlaball held October 19 at the Kit Kat Club.  Gay pride comes around the end of every June with half a million people attending between Ku’damm and the Siegessäule.

One Response to “Berlin is absolutely the hot gay destination”

  1. michael Says:

    Good article, thanks! Being a native, I would add that the Love Parade didn’t happen in Berlin in 2007 but in the Ruhr Basin in the west of Germany and might do so in the next year. Reason is that the city of Berlin and the party organizers couldn’t agree on who should pay for cleaning up the trash from the streets and parks after the parade.
    Regarding East Berlin: the wall came down in 1989 and the second biggest gay area in Berlin is actually in East Berlin: Prenzlauer Berg. It is true that in some areas of East Berlin you have to be aware of right-wing homophobes, but it is also true that in some areas of West Berlin (even in gay Schoeneberg) you have to be aware of homophob youths from Turkey and other countries.
    If somebody needs a gay guide for Berlin in English with addresses and maps of most bars, clubs etc.: patroc.com/berlin/
    Cheers, Michael

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